It's a widely held opinion among dubs that the children, even if they're apostate, should take care of their parents when the parents get old and need help.
What's ironic about this is that if the adult children have left the dubs, the dubs call them apostate, vomit-slurping dogs, who merit shunning and special hatred from God. Yet the dubs will still ignore their faithful elderly, expecting the apostate dog-children to come to the rescue. I'm surprised the dubs think apostates will still have natural concern for their parents. I guess we're reprehensible only when it suits them. How very convenient for them.
This is the case of my own mother. She's almost housebound, yet receives very few visits or calls from her loving fellow dubs, let alone any kind of help. After my apostate sibs and I are done with the vomit, etc., we go over to cook, clean, do the yard work and whatever my mother needs to stay comfortable. Not too shabby for god-hating apostates, huh?